Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Success


SUCCESS REDEFINED

Everyone would like to be a success. Yet most people fail without knowing why. This need never happen to you. Though some might feel they are destined to fail, this is not true. Men and women of all ages can achieve success.

Many believe that success involves achieving a certain amount of wealth. Others come to judge that success is a reflection of how much power they have. Still others hope to achieve fame. Nevertheless, one truth remains that many with wealth, power, or fame or with all these, fail to be happy and enjoy their existence.

Earl Nightingale defines success as the progressive realisation of a worthy goal. An astonishing fact about success is that most people give up just when about to achieve success. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touch down. Listen to Bill Cosby saying, ‘I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody’. Keep in mind that every success story is also a story of great failure

Almost invariably, people allow circumstances to dictate the course of their lives.
Only few actually sit down and plan what they hope or want to achieve over a long period. Make success happen in life with the seven steps of

Ø Desire for success
Ø Set the right goal
Ø Be resourceful with abundant learning
Ø Maintain good health
Ø Have a drive in life
Ø Bear perseverance
Ø Give more than you get

Self confidence

Self confidence
One should find out the confidence himself, and then only he can sell the confidence. It is what we want most and what we loose first. Nobody can perform successfully with out the selfconfidence. It is a self constructed defence against ambiguity.Self confidence boosts the activities. Nobody can buy the self confidence from elsewhere. Self confidence is the enlarged form of confidence by adding the desires courage and optimism.

You can have climb and conquer even the Mount Everest if you have enough confidence with in you. The one legged man from New Zealand Mr. Mark English proved this in the 15th may 2006.He conquered the Mount Everest and became the part of History. He said-“ it is not Iam, but my confidence is the winner. Prior to this I conquered Mount Everest so many times but that all was with in my Mind”


Friends believe it-‘Nothing is impossible in this world’. Self confidence will lead you to miracles if you desire & deserve it


The tips to improve self confidence:


Ø Get maximum knowledge
Ø Be an optimist
Ø Take challenging changes
Ø Don’t procrastinate
Ø Think twice before the action
Ø Rehearse before the action
Ø Better communication
Ø Well dressing


Friends, Throw your Heart over to the Bars; And your body will follow. You should dream as you want to be. Start now itself…Remember. Time and tide will not wait for man.

INTRODUCTION

To start with here is a fact of nature common man doesn't know:

Eagles enjoy the longest life expectency among bird species. They can live up to 70 years. In order to survive, they have to make a critical decision at the age of 40. When eagles turn 40, their claws weaken. If we put down our old self, “eagerly” pick up new skills, we are able to explore the undiscovered talents in us and is hard for them to catch preys. Their beaks are grown long & curved almost touching their chest. Their wings are heavier due to thick & long feathers.

They have 2 Choices:

Dying Or undergoing a painful transformation.
150 days of perservarence & steadfastness...

They have to fly to the top. Build their home there and rest.They have to hit their beaks against the rock till they fall off. And wait patiently for the new beaks to grow. They will use their new beaks to pull out their nails. With their newly grown nails, they will then clean off their old feathers. 5 months later, the eagles will fly again with their new feathers. They renew their strength for another 30 years!.

Sometimes we have to make difficult decisions in life In order to embark on a new journey.

Let go your old habits and traditions, And let yourself fly again Like The Eagle. If we put down our old self, “eagerly” pick up new skills, we are able to explore the undiscovered talents in us.